Perception plays an important role in determining the course of our life. There is so much we can learn from life, only if we observe, imbibe and alter our perspective. Living in harmony and adapting to the environment are essential for growth and important to lead a balanced life.One can achieve this only when they learn to see the good in every situation and also the good in others. Every individual is unique and special. A creation of God can never be faulty. If we train our mind to look for the spark of goodness in others, appreciate and acknowledge them the world will definitely be a happier place to live in.
The mad race or rat race for success; competition, comparison and the need to excel has strained human relationships. Individuals are dejected at the smallest failures. Many lack coping skills, a support system, in family or friends.
Strengethening relationships is the need of the hour, as they have become fragile and reduced to be just a matter of benefit. Everyone has a list of people whom they dislike and avoid for various reasons. Avoiding people on reasons of incompatibility is preferred for mental wellbeing but not always an optimal solution.
Every individual has something good in them which is unfortunately camouflaged by their unfavourable behaviour towards us. The vices we see in a person are a result of the circumstances and not necessarily their true nature.
Empathy can mend strained relationships. If we understand the other person and respect them for what they do and how they choose to be, life will be a lot easier.
Emotional distress is rising due to interpersonal conflicts and differences of opinion. It has become difficult to convey feelings to one another. The Ego does not permit individuals to share their trauma and insecurities for the fear of being judged. Confronting the troubled mind is essential and communicating with difficult people can certainly change the equation. Sensible conversations help in resolving sensitive issues.
While it’s a blessing to have someone who is willing to listen to you without judging, lending an ear to those in distress can be very helpful. Sharing perspectives can bridge the gap between distant minds and hearts. Relationships thrive when there is Mutual respect.
In this vast ocean called life, God has given each one of us a special place. If we humbly accept it, there will be no insecurity in the human mind. However different we may be, we all are equal in the eyes of God. We are a part of him, the like fractions of the Supreme Soul.The day we understand and accept this truth the world will be a joyous place to live in.
The following shloka from Bhagwad Gita beautifully explains the importance of Equanimity of Vision...
Bg. 18.20
सर्वभूतेषु येनैकं भावमव्ययमीक्षते ।
अविभक्तं विभक्तेषु तज्ज्ञानं विद्धि सात्त्विकम् ॥ २० ॥
sarva-bhūteṣu yenaikaṁ
bhāvam avyayam īkṣate
avibhaktaṁ vibhakteṣu
taj jñānaṁ viddhi sāttvikam
Translation
That knowledge by which one undivided spiritual nature is seen in all living entities, though they are divided into innumerable forms, you should understand to be in the mode of goodness.
