A Day of Remembrance!

There comes a day in every one's life that reminds us about our existence-our BIRTHDAY! After having spent several years celebrating this special day with our friends, family, spouse and children, we come to a point wherein we start introspecting about the importance of this day. Why are we here? What is the purpose of life? Each passing year brings a new perspective towards life!

Dhara walked into room no 2514 on the fifth floor of the private ward. A faint smile greeted her “Happy Birthday” wished her mother, “why are you here?” She asked “ you could have stayed at home today! your Dad is here as well, there was no need for you to spend your special day here with me!” Dhara sat beside holding her mother’s hand “ what better way to spend a Birthday, with the person who brought you to this world.” she thought. These were the most precious moments of Dhara’s life, “I'm very happy to be here with you ma,” she smiled “look I’m wearing a new outfit today, don’t I look Pretty?” she asked. ”You are looking very pretty my dear child!” remarked her mother.  She gently planted a kiss on her mother’s hand and put her head down.

 We all need our mother’s when we aren't feeling good, don't we? As a child whenever Dhara felt insecure she put her head on mother's  lap. This was her moment of peace, be it exam fear or a bad day, mother's presence made a huge difference. When she had fever, she would be happy to have mother by her side. One by one so many instances crossed her mind. When she got married, extremely nervous about her new life, mother was there to calm her fears.During all the difficult times, mother convinced that this too shall pass. When she was going through a difficult pregnancy, mother took great care of her ensuring her baby arrived safely to this world. At each and every step of life, during all the rough times mother had stood by her like a rock! Throughout, Dhara’s  mother had sacrificed a lot for her. 

Dhara had learned the true value of relationships from her mother. Unconditional love, dedication and compassion. Her mother was her Hero- she had also braved the odds in life. Mother was an epitome of strength and determination for Dhara. She gained her strength from her mother. 

Every birthday Mother would take Dhara and her sibling to the temple to seek blessings from the almighty. She always prayed for the well being and prosperity of her children like every parent does. Today it was Dhara praying hard for mother's speedy recovery. She felt extremely insecure, fear of losing mother made her very anxious and sad. “ Dhara please get me some water “ mother asked in a low voice. Dhara quickly handed her a glass of water. “ you've become like a mother to me now” she said. Dhara smiled “ I feel so calm when you are around!” exclaimed mother. Life had changed their roles, tears rolled down her eyes on hearing these words. 

 Relationships change with time, life has it’s own method of imparting lessons. Dhara was fortunate to be by her mother’s side in the time of need. We are where God wants us to be at that moment, every experience is a part of his divine plan.Dhara had always questioned the purpose of her life and today she had the answer! This day, had changed her outlook towards life! 

Mother gave up the mortal world and moved to a  better place! Dhara, stayed back to continue her impending journey with the same strength and determination as her mother's. Life is like a river, go with the flow! Live, Love and Embrace everything that you receive with a SMILE!